Learn Body Language

How did you learn about body language and "signals" and, God forbid, vibes?

In the context of my unsuccessful dating life, whenever I ask a question, evryone talks about "maybe you're not showing him that your available", maybe it's the vibe you're giving off, it's your body language. Where did you learn about these rules of attraction? It seems evryon knows about their importance but me. My mother and friends never told me about any of this stuff yet somehow, evryoe else - exept me - seems to know instinctively about non-verbal signs that are exchanged between opposite sexes. I think most of the time peple are reading my intentions incorrectly from my body language. They are certainly not receiving the messages I want them to receive. I'm trying to appear mor approachbale but even guys who I know like me won't approach me for a date. What gives? It's very frustrating.

Public Comments

1. Most girls learned from mags the whole doing them questionnaires with questions like 'When we attract each others eye contact he looks away fast'...thats meant to mean he likes you. A good book for all of this is 'The handbook of girly love emergencies' its an easy read and costs£6 from WHSmith (not sure if you lvie in the uk) but yea any book shop should do it. I live by the book!!!
2. Hello my freind, yes body language is interesting they say that body language is most important in communication with someone, then of course sight and vision. firstly what a great question you have :) You know if you smile all the time this should really boost your body language, use your hands more often and try to show yourself as a more happier person to be around caring, funny and laugh more. Checkout this link and have a look it will help you futher http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_language read the social users section. lastly read from the guru himself about body language with this man Alan pease he is known world wide giving speaches and teaching people about body language i copied the link for you : ) http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/search-handle-url/index=blended%26field-keywords=body%20language%20pease%26results-process=default%26dispatch=search/ref=pd_sl_ov_tops-1_blended_15097150_1&results-process=default?tag2=over-adv-20 Goodluck and all the best keep your chin up and if you want to know i think your a smart girl for using yahoo answers :) hope this helps you, take care now, bye.