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Can body language or facial expression give women the wrong message?

I have a little bit of an issue trying to find dates. I can't figure out what it is I am doing wrong. I would think most women would be interest in a guy like me; I always keep up with my appearance , I am always dressing up(bad habit), I am always a gentlemen or try, basically I know it has nothing to do with my appearance or being mean or rude. A buddy of mine told me that he notices that I will never look at them and that may be give the message that I have no interest; reason is I some how got the idea that it is rude and I admit, I avoid trying to let them know I have interest. I know that I usually have a serious look on my face which is a habit from my job. Basically what I asking is do particular body movement, facial expressions give women the wrong message. Should I work on giving more eye contact or show more interest? I know not to look at them in a sexual and more in there general appearance. Any additional tips or suggestions would be great.

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1. Yes definately! A girl wants to know if a guy is interested in her. If you dont even look at her she will then that u arn't. I know its hard (i even have trouble with it) but you need to try and look at a girl that you are interested in. When she looks at you smile at her and then look away. Maybe do it one more time for luck and then she will know! Remember a lot of girls will not make the first move! So you either need ur body language to do it or else you need to approach her. Don't have a serious face! I also have a stern face at work but when you go out forget about work and concentrate on your personal life. Just have fun with it! Buy her a drink, dance behind her and bump into her by mistake (but softly) and then every so often do it again. When she looks at you smile at her! Body language is a big thing. If a girl picks up on the wrong signal she will think that you arnt interested and move on! Good luck hey
2. YES. Women are very sensitive. They may find you attractive, but if you never look at them, they get their feelings hurt and will decide that you are not worth their time. If you like someone, strike up a conversation, LOOK AT HER, and see if she responds. You may have to do this a few times to really get her to respond to you because she is probably going to be shocked that you looked at her and a little leary of your sudden attention since you have a history of ignoring. If she is interested, she will start striking up conversations with you too...that's when you ask her out.
3. hheelloo.....women need to feel the attention.....they need to know that ur interested..... eye contact is the most important thing.....thats what lets u know if it's going to be a good catch.......gateway to a relationship........it's all in the eyes.