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Body language question for the ladies?
I have come to understand body language very well. I have tried to understand the body language of women, but there are pieces to the puzzle I am missing. It's hard to tell when they like you or not, or what to say next. Body language controls a large portion of the conversations humans have between one another and I would just like some insight into this.
Public Comments
- Give an example. What exactly do you want to know?
- I guess you have a hard time with us ladies because we get so nervous sometimes, and we're trained to hold back at first! But, you can see if her legs are crossed toward you, feet pointing toward you, if she's mimicking your stance or leaning forward. All of these are signs. Also, if she laughs at all of your jokes;-)
- When i find myself around someone I really dont want to be around, I tend to protect my body. For example, I may sit with my legs crossed. I may fold my arms. I may turn my body the opposite way as if this person smells or something. I may talk to the person but be looking in another direction or not looking directly at the person. If I am talking to be nice, it may short unintersted answers. Usually these signs are the best indicators of someone not being interested.
- we are a puzzle indeed. but we dont all have a set way of body language that we are taught by our mothers. alot of the time what we want you to think and what we want you to do can be two different things. be carefull with this one buddy. the female body can be tricky...
- Unfortunately, everyone body language is different. For Example, If I was interested in you, I would smile and laugh a lot more, I would find a reason to touch you in some way even if it was something as simple as a touch of your arm as we talk, Now another girl could do the exact same thing and she just might be a friendly person in general and means nothing more to it, or another girl could become very quiet and reserved when around you, she maybe doing complete opposite of what I did, but still is totally into you. I hope that made sense! Basically, there is no one universal body language that everyone uses to say I am into you. We are not simple like animals who do mating calls or dances. The best advice is to try to weed it out and if your not sure, just ask! The worst that could happen is you get shut down, and everyone has survived that at least once!
