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body language? wtf?
i like this guy, and im soo confused about what is going on. he told me that he wants to take things slow, and nothing has happened between us, but when we are together he looks in my eyes.. that way (i think). and he stayed at my house a while ago and i woke up in the middle of the night with his arm around me, and he kept making sure some part of his body was touching mine, and he was kinda cuddling with me. we talk ALL the time. but we both are going through bs w/ our exes.. and when they found out he told me they will get over it, and its not any of their business. and i think im falling for him, but im afraid to ask him what is going on w/ us b/c i don't want to loose him as a friend. but all his body language is telling me he is into me, and maybe he is just shy like that and doesn't want to move to fast. he once told me he doesn't want to jump inot anything quickly b/c the never work out. HELP... is he just wanting to take things slow? or am i misreading him?
Public Comments
- You're right girl, he's attracted to you. You're a good friend. Sounds like you're a great pair. Sounds like he's still in love with his ex and hoping things turn out between them, OR, maybe he's even more afraid that you and your ex are going to get together and doesn't want to get his feelings involved as long as you are not emotionally available. Heres what I would do, compliment him every time you see him, find something nice to say. Also, get rid of your ex for good, and let him know, you're absolutely through with him, and single. Make that perfectly clear. Then, once you've done that, show him this question and answer. Its an indirectly direct approach, very unthreatening. Good luck with him, from what you say, sounds like you two could be a great couple!
- well i am onl 11 and I am sorry but don't have any advice for u i just want the points
