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Body language what do you think? Okay I was in the laundry mat the other day and this girl was there you know?

how we all look at eachother when people walk in well I glanced over to look at her, and she turned her head. So I just continued going my business and was waiting for my laundry to be folded she acted very weird almost like she felt uncomfortable since I walked in there . tell me why A person would act this way she was acting so weird and uncomfortable . I think body language is very interesting do you think she felt intiminated by me ? What do you think? I didnt know her and she didnt know me. ?

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1. There could be a million answers to this question and just as many factors as to why she would act this way. Maybe she is sleeping with your man LOL :p I wish I could be more helpful but I would have so many questions to ask you before I could give an honest answer.
2. Have you considered that it might have been your body language which made her uncomfortable? Probably she was wondering why you were acting that way.
3. People act that way out of anxiety. Was she avoiding eye contact? I think maybe she was insecure about herself and didnt want you to think anything bad about her. Maybe she didnt know how to react, "Should I say hello?" "Should I offer help?" "Maybe she thinks Im discusting!". I used to be like that when I was younger- so overconcerned about what people thought of me- especially strangers. Maybe she is slightly agorophic and was forced to go out into society because her clothes were dirty and she had to get them clean. When i was younger and I used to see a well dressed, well spoken stranger, i used to feel like they were above me socially. And if I was ever forced to make contact with them- I had to do everything in my power to impress them. Maybe this is the reason why she acted like she did
4. The most important part of any communication is the message you're trying to convey - and this is the responsibility of the communicator to get right. So in this instance the communicator has expressed that you make her uncomfortable - you in turn have understood the message. She's been able to get the message across using only body language, which is fascinating in itself. The question is, what more did she need to do, to ensure you got the message? If she'd said 'I don't like you', would this have helped? It may even be the case that she didn't know herself what was going on, hence it wasn't possible to express what she felt verbally - imagine the conversation: "I don't like you." "Why?" "I don't know why, I just don't." Does this help or not? I suspect it would actually make you feel worse, so in a way she did you a favour by not opening her mouth, saved you time and possibly a row. Sometimes you just have to accept the meaning of a communication and not over analyse the contenet - that's life.
5. Perhaps she was stealing other people's laundry. It happens.
6. She felt comfortable there just doing her laundry, then you invaded her space and suddenly she had to deal with you, or maybe she was a lesbian, and checking you out for the signs they give each other, just in case you were, too.
7. Time to grow up now!
8. Yes and that's an answer (violation) but she may have been reacting to another person being added to the room count too though. Don't take it personally. Women can be jealous and you know that especially if you are good looking, but she would be uncomfortable anywhere is my guess!! You are very intuitive and conscious of others actions. You stay alert and I like that in a person!! Makes for more Authentic Living!! (Whatever) Carry On! @80)