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Reading body language?

I recently met someone in business who threw me off when after a great conversation, she actually put her foot against my chair (we sat side by side during the meeting). Does anybody know what this is supposed to mean in body language? I felt that she was really comfortable with me but I don't know what that meant exactly. She put her foot so that it was resting on my leg for a bit. I was confused b/c we're both involved with other women and are working for the same firm. (We're both lesbians...not that our sexuality matters). I'm just a little taken aback b/c she seemed to be flirty in many other ways that day, but it was her body language which threw me off. By the way, any gay bashing like Dr. C below will be reported to yahoo. Racism, gay bashing and death threats are not allowed on yahoo so good luck in life if you display any of these on here.

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  1. that means she put her foot on your chair ....WOW...it's nuthin big
  2. ......maybe her legs were hurting???
  3. Yes, its a non verbal affectionate way to show a connection. Similar to that handshake that keeps hanging on. She is telling you she is interested, and now its your move!
  4. It could mean 2 things: She didnt know it was YOUR chair or She wanted to play footzie? who knows...
  5. she obviously needed some attention. maybe she just had her legs waxed and wants you to notice - or better compliment it. haha no matter how comfortable i am talking to someone whether a man or woman, i would not do something like that. unless he's my boyfriend.
  6. Did she put her foot on the back of your chair like you were buddies? Or did she put her leg on your chair like come and get it? Either scenario is not too difficult to read.
  7. she's just using your chair as a foot stool.if she actually rubbed her shoe/foot against your leg, then she has the hots for you.otherwise, she was probably just resting her foot against your chair and feels that you can be another one of her "nice guy/girl" friends that she can have nice conversations with.you'll have to wait and see if she does it again and advances the position of her foot or not. -she probably wants a booty call.it is not recommended to be involved with co-workers or people in the same work building.it might be nice to receive the attention and flirting can be fun but it'll only add more drama/anxiety and it's not worth ruining current already involved relationships with.
  8. Of course UR confused!! Leso's is the way of the devil!! ... and he is called, "The author of confusion"! It is a warning ... in its own way: You need to get right away from this tendency and lifestyle. Go halfway around the world if you need to ... but you need to break free from it!
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