Learn Body Language
Big Problem!!!! Help me?!?!? ill give points.?
So she gave me hints, she liked me, textin me i aint got no boyfriend im lonely balhbalhbalhb.. so i just went to test the waters just to "hang out" We just started working together.. i barely noe her..we went to eat... then to a cafe... we were on the pc doing business related stuf.. she was about to go home but i said hey lets catch a movie.. so went to a movie... good body language her knees pointing towards me cuddling on my arm rubbing against my shoulder... (watched Disturbia) she said we should hang out more.. we went to the park talked for 2 hours... (telling me she has a boyfriend in Cananda so i asked if they keep in contact she told me she barely does) was pretty fun... but i asked her something (i forgot) she said we met cuz of business... so i was thinkin to myself we ate dinner, watched a movie... talked for 2 hours at a park... nothing business related.. and that was cuz of business?? also she tried to feed me while eating which i denied cuz i got the baby face.. and i dont speak fluent korean (im in s.korea) but korean desecent... i dont want to be treated like a "little brother" she never had... Does she like me.. or is she just messing with my head... any suggestions?? what i shoul do??!?!? help i really like this girl. She is touchy to others too...but seems to give me more attention..asking me to go to lunch all the time.. comes to help me at times.. i dunno if she just worried about me cuz i just moved to south korea.. or if she is attracted to me.
Public Comments
- yeah dude, she likes you. why would she stick around and such if she didnt? if she was just trying to use you for sex, she would try to jump on it quickly rather than take her time. go for it, you know you'll regret it if you dont. :)
- lol girls do this alot... they give you signs but deny that they like you just keep in touch she'll come through eventually.. i had many girls that liked me but when i asked they was lik i just think your cute then like 3days later they tell me the truth(like i didnt know)..they try to be a catch and im sure this girl likes you beacuase why else would she spend all that time with you jus play it cool dont act to interested in her!!!
- I personally see no problem at all. If you like this girl and obviously she likes you too otherwise Asian girls normally do not go to movies and restaurants etc with strange persons so fast. It normally takes a couple of times of mere meeting before one does the movies etc. And her saying she has a boyfriend in Canada is a show one wants to invent to make the other side a bit jealous thereby making it not so cheap. This is all part of the game. What are you waiting for the scene is perfect. I personally envy you. Wish you all the best though.
- well i would look into the culture a little and see how girl/boy interactions work there(it she is from a different culture, Korean?). It sounds like she is very attracted to you actually and that she may have been trying to not be too forward by stating it was a business thing but that could be for what someone else thinks of her actions, it is really hard to say. I would maybe see if she wants to go for a walk sometime in a park/by a river maybe again in an afternoon setting and after a bit slip your hand to hers and see if she goes for it and then you should be able to tell if it is an attraction thing or a sisterly thing, depending on how she holds it. I wouldn't push too much because of the boyfriend thing because she might feel that you don't respect her. Go slow, it is always best. Good luck and the best of happiness....S.
- women have this tendency to baby guys whom they think also wants to be babied.. based on what you have posted, her behavior actually showed signs of interpersonal attraction- that i can say she is attracted to you. however, don't jump into conlcusions yet. How does she treat other people? is she also sweet to others or that is only exclusive to you? I've had interacted with korean (i used to be a teacher for korean students) and i have observed them and also made some interviews regarding korean culture. from that, i've found that women are not usually expressive of their feelings (this time im talking about korean women in general) and they are also not touchy. so i believe she is also attracted to you. but just a piece of advice, don't get yourself too vulnerable to that.. she may just be missing her boyfriend and at the same time she llso wants to have a younger brother and she found both of that in you... Don't expect, don't assume until she personally tells you so..
