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Do you think I confused her or hurt her feelings? Should I apologize? What should I say?
I met someone about a year and a half ago. We really hit it off in a lot of ways. We never kissed or anything but we did have a pretty intimate parting early on in the friendship. I was really new in this relationship business so I acted a little rashly and sent her an e-mail confessing how I was romantically into her. She responded saying that she didn't really know what to think. She suggested that we meet up again (a hint that she wanted to take it slow). However, we were living a few hours apart and with the business of work and so on, it was another couple of months or so before we actually met up again. I basically initiated our meeting. After what I had said in that e-mail I sent her, I think she sort of expected me to make a move. Her body language seemed to suggest this too. However, I didn't. Instead I expressed how my life was taking a new direction. I didn't even mention that e-mail I had sent her. Do you think I confused her? Should I apologize? If so, how? I was serious about what I said in regards to my life taking a new direction. But I have a friend who wants to hire someone. I think she would be perfect for the job. So, should I apologize about my "mixed signals" before I mention the job to her?
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- Don't apologize you've done nothing wrong! next time you see her arrange a surprise dinner or something then she knows that you still feel that way and she wouldn't really be confused..then see where the evening takes you x hope i've helped if you need anymore help just message me!
